Valentine’s After 35

The truth is after a certain level of maturity, Valentine’s Day doesn’t mean anything other than another day to dress up and over indulge in chocolate and red wine.

It really doesn’t matter if you have a partner or not, because it’s just one single day!

I need a partner more when I’ve had an emotionally and/or physically draining day and need to be cocooned in my safe place, more than I need a man for Valentine’s Day

I need a partner to sit with and plan and/or review the plans we have for our family, relationship and our business, more than I need a man for Valentine’s Day.

I need a partner who will remind me to humble myself and watch my antics, when I’m allowing myself to be mean spirited and arrogant, more than I need a man for Valentine’s Day.

I need a partner to remind me of worth and that I am enough, just as I am, on the days the dam of my insecurities overflow, more than I need a man for Valentine’s Day

I need a partner who will welcome and commit to us being best friends, lovers, loyal confidant and life partners, more than I need a man for Valentine’s.

So on this beautiful sunny Valentine’s Day, as I am savoring my second cup of black coffee, I am sending out peace, love and happiness to all.

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY

2 responses to “Valentine’s After 35”

  1. Even though your perspective is filled with meaning, lets not run away from the reason for Vday..Its a day for lovers to take some.time out and express themselves to one another.

    One would say that shoulf happen every day. Just like how a person should make them selves feel special everyday not just their birthday, just like how mothers and fathers need love outside of their designated day.

    Let us not throw away the baby with the bath water, its a special day for lovers and if one doesnt have one they can remain silent but dont try spoil it for others…I am sure your mothers get to feel special on their day do the same for your lover.

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