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Happy New Year!
The thought of marriage, that which I consider the ultimate commitment, always made my armpits itch and my palms sweat. INSTANTLY! Mind you, I’ve never attended a wedding that I didn’t thoroughly enjoy. And the receptions are always the highlight for me. The food, the drinks, the music, and especially that festive jovial atmosphere. I…
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Merry Christmas to YOU!
So Christmas Day was a few days ago and the kids were well pleased with their gifts. So much so that Ni, my oldest daughter, said that this was her best Christmas ever! Here’s the thing, she has been saying that every year and every year I agree with her! After all, as long as…
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You’re Beautiful as You
When did we become a society that seeks validation outside of ourselves? Who determines what beauty is? Who and what determines if a person is beautiful and what they deserve? Somebody? Anybody? Help me with this, please? This past week I watched a video clip where a young lady is was speaking to a relationship…
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I was the photographer at my Boyfriend’s Wedding
We were dating for several months when the grand idea to test out celibacy came about. Not that the intimate part of our relationship wasn’t satisfying. But more so, when done with the right intention, it can be so advantageous to your relationship. In my mind, focusing on self-disciple and real intimacy in our relationship…
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Dating in 2020
The year is 2020 and it can only be described as the “never saw it coming” year. This was supposed to be the year I put myself out there and date. And by putting me out there I mean being intentional by going out with my female friends and taking up some hobbies that would…
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Lingerie Matters!
If I had $5 for every time I heard a woman say she doesn’t need or purchase lingerie, it’s a waste of time and money because it’s only on for a few minutes, I’d be filthy rich. Yes, I wear lingerie for my man but more importantly I wear it for myself! The confidence boost…
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You Made Me Do It!
Nothing hurts more than finding out you’re being cheated on. Cheated on by someone you would never ever do it to. Even in times when the opportunity presented itself and with an almost guarantee of no repercussion, I’ve walked away. I have walked away out of respect for my relationship and respect for myself. To…
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How I Learn to Tickle His Pickle
I can take constructive criticism! I’m a big girl now. Just tell me what it is that needs to be fixed. I am here for it. Especially when I value the relationship. All I ask is that you’re respectful/mindful of your tone when you’re doing it. Or so I thought anyway. My then lover and…
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Falling in love with potential
“Falling in love is such an easy thing to doAnd there’s no guarantee that the one you loveIs gonna love you” That new relationship feeling is the absolutely blissful and just beautiful! Everything about it is perfect and seemingly exactly what you ever needed. It’s also in this phase that most people tend to overlook…
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What do you want from me?
Ladies have you ever asked your significant other what he wants or even expects from your relationship? Has it ever crossed your mind that you may not be giving him what he wants even though you feel like you’re making ALL the effort in the world? Have you ever communicated to your partner your needs…